There are plenty of good sexblogs out there on the web…like the ramblings over at ‘pretty dumb things‘ - they’re hot!

The best starting place, I think, for integrating vibes into your sex life cum partner is to play with the vibe while said partner watches. Make him (or her) sit in a chair or at the foot of the bed and gaze on the pleasure-filled being that is you diddling yourself with the vibe. Tie him up if you have to. Or if you just want to. If you like being the exhibitionist, this vibe-show can be a lovely way to get accustomed to the vibe—its presence and its noise—as well as to use it as foreplay.

- via fleshbot